Last update on this thread, issue found and solved mostly. Turns out a badly cracked exhaust manifold, two snapped bolts, and a blown gasket really mess with fuel trims. Aftermarket manifold is in now, Fel-Pro gasket but a Mahle steel one on the way. One of the bolts we removed, and I'll remove the other a week or so when the better gasket comes in too. New Dorman bolts in all holes except that one that is still snapped. Still a pretty big leak after idling, but once you get on it and heat up the gasket it works great. Hopefully the bolt and new OEM gasket finally finishes the issue, no engine light as of right now even with the leak still. Hope someone finds this and gets something out of it sometime. Would have saved me a couple hundred bucks and alot of pain and stress.